The Unity Candle Ceremony is a traditional part of the wedding ceremony. For the unknowing, the unity candle service consists of a candelabrum holding three candles. The outside candles are lit by the mother’s representing this couple’s lives. Their flames represent the faith, wisdom and love received from their parents and friends. Lighting the center candle symbolizes the union of their lives. Their thoughts shall be for each other, they will share joy and sorrow. The two other flames remain lit to show how although they are now one, they are still each unique individuals.

    Our minister will say something like the following to the couple prior to their lighting the unity candle. “Marriage brings two people into a unique relationship. While each is separate, we arrive here with a past full of love and remembrance. In this union you will share many experiences as if you were one yet each of you retain your identity. I invite you now to light your unity candle as a symbol of the union of your lives. May your love so endure that its flame remains a guiding light unto you.”

For your wedding, please contact Rudy Brostrom by email or phone 803-442-WEDS or (442-9337)